519: Win The Day & Manufacture Momentum

519: Win The Day & Manufacture Momentum

If you ever feel stuck or unsure of how to start making progress, today’s motivational minisode is for you! The truth is, you are never stuck and you don’t have to figure out a “plan” to begin. There’s a simple starting point that is available and achievable in every single moment!

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518: The Difference Between Failure & Success

518: The Difference Between Failure & Success

“To a man with a hammer, everything looks like a nail.” ~ Charlie Munger

For most of my life, my only approach to fat loss was more restriction and more deprivation. I was so caught up in the misery of the problem that I wasn’t being strategic in my approach. I returned to a strategy, over and over again, that didn’t work for me.

In today’s episode we’re going to talk about the common strategies people repeat that don’t work as well as alternatives that do work. The goal of today’s episode is to help you recognize where you have great intentions but terrible results so you can adjust your approach to one that is both sustainable and effective.

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I’m Lazy

Last week I opened up registration to the Fall 12 Weeks to Transformation coaching group. I got a lot of emails about questions and concerns from people who really want to change but have a backlog of failures. There’s a common theme I see in all these emails:

People identify with their past patterns more than they do with their present potential. Friends: the way you’ve done things before isn’t the only way they can be done. You can choose, in any moment, a new response.

If you’d rather listen to this email than read it, please click play. Otherwise, keep reading below. 

Let’s look at one particular email that came in and how I responded.

Hi, Elizabeth!

I REALLY want to join your 12-week program because I love everything you put out and believe in what you do. But I’m scared it’s going to just be another “thing” I sign up for and never fully commit to or follow through. I’m an e-course junkie and I know that’s out of your hands but I really DO want to make some changes with my health/mindset/motivation. The bottom line is this: I’m lazy. I’m gung-ho for a while and then I go back to my old patterns and I don’t seem to be able to stop the cycle.
What are your thoughts?
My thoughts? Glad you asked! I’ll tell you!
You are able to stop the cycle. Just because you haven’t created that change does not in any way mean you aren’t able.
There are two approaches you can take to this reality of having failed to create change in the past. One is the approach she has taken in the email above. You decide that the way you have been before is the way you are. If you decide that you will continue you behave the way you have before, you’ll get what you’ve gotten before. If that’s the perspective you choose, I’d agree that you shouldn’t spend your money on “another thing”.
Here’s the other thing that jumps out at me. She isn’t saying she has been lazy. She’s saying it’s who she is. It’s her identity. The only thing I can say in response to that: If you argue for your limitations, you get to keep them. If you tell me you’re lazy, I believe you. I also believe that you can be something else. Anything else.
Here’s another approach she (and you) can take.
I have been lazy before. I have failed to do the work before. But that’s not the story I want to continue to live into. I’m ready to change. I want to be different and I know that requires I think differently.

“Elizabeth, how can we work together to make sure I approach this differently and create a different result? I’m ready to stop limiting myself with my past choices and I’m excited for your help. What’s the first step?”

I emailed her back and said, essentially, “Do you want to continue to live into that story you told me? Or are you ready to create a new one?
How about you?
516: September Reset

516: September Reset

September is a natural time to check in with yourself and course-correct as needed. Summer is over, the kids are back to school, and the new year is right around the corner. Just this past weekend I sat down with my journal to check-in with myself and my goals. In today’s episode I’m sharing the questions I asked myself as well as a webinar from my winter 12 Weeks To Transformation veterans group. In that webinar, we did a quick check of the basics, a quick check of attitude and perspective, and then dove into breaking down one of the major barriers to change: your story about your past and your problems.

Three Questions In This Episode: 

What do you want?

Who do you want to be?

How do you want to see yourself?

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206: My #1 Fat Loss Recommendation (Journaling)

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