296: Training Your Focus On What You Want Most

296: Training Your Focus On What You Want Most

One of the fastest ways to accelerate your progress & increase your results is by training your brain to focus more consistently on what you want most instead of on what you want now.

This is the key to becoming stronger than your temptations & excuses.

In today’s episode I’ll talk about a 5-minute daily exercise to help you train your brain and I’ll share a snippet of a conversation I recently had with a client on this topic. Don’t miss it!

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Breaking Barriers

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Fat Loss Best Practices

Fat Loss Best Practices

I hate to disappoint you, but “eating healthy” doesn’t guarantee fat loss.

I can’t tell you how many people I talk with who are frustrated that they’ve cleaned up their eating habits but aren’t seeing fat loss results.

Eating clean isn’t enough.

If what you’re doing isn’t working, it’s time for a change.

And while you’re here: get used to it. Get used to things changing. Get used to things not working. You won’t ever be able to adopt a strategy and expect it to work forever.

Don’t keep doing things that don’t work just because you stubbornly believe they should.

First, it’s important to acknowledge that your idea of “eating clean” might be flawed. Maybe you’ve believed what you’ve read or heard and it’s just not true. It might not be true in general or it just might not be true for you.

Second, the hormonal conditions required for fat burning are not as simple as “eat clean”.

I’ve talked at length on the podcast about how eating less and moving more does not necessarily trigger fat loss. Definitely check out this podcast if you want to understand why calories aren’t the be-all-end-all of fat loss.

There are undeniable fat loss best practices and I’m going to share them with you today.

They aren’t complicated. They don’t require counting or measuring. They are simple, straight forward and will also increase your energy and improve your mood.

I actually used to sell this as an e-book but I’ve decided I want every single one of you to be able to access it for free. You can download it immediately right here. Feel free to share it!

No matter what you do, I hope you’ll keep this in mind:

Break the mold. You don’t have to do anything in your life the way others do it, the way you’ve thought it should be done.

Do what works for you. That’s all you should be paying attention to.

You don’t have to believe what you’ve always believed or conform to what others say is right or true (including what I say!) Find what is true for you. Find what works for you.

296: Training Your Focus On What You Want Most

295: Billion Dollar Life Lessons From Ray Dalio

Whether or not you’ve ever heard of billionaire business tycoon Ray Dalio, you can absolutely learn from his philosophies on life & success.

In 2010 he published his own principles & operating systems for wealth, happiness and goal achievement. In today’s episode we’re mining the billion dollar life lessons contained within.

Without exception, these principles are game changers!

If you’re goal is health, fitness, fat loss, financial or anything in between, you won’t want to miss today’s episode!

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Principles by Ray Dalio

Breaking Barriers

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Love (Yourself) Without Limit

I’m about to make many of you really uncomfortable. #sorrynotsorry

What if you begin to love without limit?

But wait…there’s more…

What if you love YOURSELF without limit?

What would that look like?

What could that look like today?

Back in November at my ASCEND weekend event, I asked everyone to place their hand on their heart and smile.

It was uncomfortable. Even as I sit here now, it feels awkward to put my hand gently over my heart and smile. It feels lame. Cheesy.

That’s a defense mechanism.

Why is it so hard for us to be tender with ourselves? Why does it feel so weird?

At the risk of stating the obvious: that’s not the way it’s supposed to be.

It’s a sign that we have some important work to do.

We can be tender with our children or our lovers but it feels “wrong” to be tender with ourselves.

You might wonder what this has to food, fat loss or health.

A lot.

You can’t hate your way to a body you love.

You won’t be drawn to take impeccable care of someone you resist and resent.

If you’re turning to food or alcohol in a way that pulls you away from your goals, there is deeper work to be done.

Fix the well, not the sink. Go to the source of the problem.

It’s time to develop some self-respect and self-love. Seriously. Now. It’s of the highest importance.

I’m speaking from experience here.

I spent too long thinking I wasn’t good enough, pretty enough, thin enough, smart enough or desirable enough.

Why would I consistently take care of someone I didn’t think was worth it?

Hint: I didn’t.

That was the problem.

What I know is this: I must meet my own needs before I can expect anyone else to.

I must respect myself, love myself and believe in myself in order to consistently take impeccable care of myself and want to do so.

I must love myself before I can feel fully loved by someone else.

We’ve got to fall in love with ourselves, guys.

We must love without limits.

It happens slowly. One thought at a time, one choice at a time, one benign moment of appreciation at a time.

Be patient. Don’t rush. Go slow.

Start by smiling.

Don’t take your thoughts so seriously.

Don’t fixate on the problems in your life.

Find the thin slices of joy.

Court yourself. Be kind. If you dare, be gentle even.

At a minimum, as I said in a recent (don’t miss) podcast – stop being such a dick to yourself.

Life is too short to be unhappy.

Love without limit.

BONUS Consideration: Think of someone special in your life. How can you remove the limits on your expressions of love?

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294: How To Bounce Back

The other day I was in the middle of a hard workout and I thought of a lesson I learned from one of my past trainers (and great friend), Nathan Keil.

See, I used to use the transition from one exercise to another as a build in pause or rest. Whether it was 5 seconds or a minute, it was a built-in rest.

One day, during a particularly intense workout, Nathan said, “go immediately to the first rep of the next movement. No rest. No pause. Get to the next rep as fast as possible”.

Even if I just did one rep of the next thing, the point was to break the habit of that pause.

After my workout, I realized just how applicable this is to life.

Let’s say you eat something you wish you hadn’t or don’t feel too proud of. Isn’t it so common to hem and haw about how to get back on track? How to bounce back? We use the transition as pause.

We overthink and overcomplicate.

What if we just got to the next great choice as fast as possible? No thinking, no planning, no strategizing. Just get to the next great choice as fast as possible.

Don’t miss today’s short episode to figure out how you can bounce back faster and take your performance to the next level.

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Create Your Bounce Back Strategy 

Breaking Barriers

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